Beyond the Game: How Our Military Kids is Filling the Gaps for Children of Service Members

By Angela Gray

Oakton, VA – While headlines often focus on troop deployments and geopolitical strategies, the ripple effects of military service extend far beyond the battlefield – deeply impacting the families who support those who serve. This week, Our Military Kids (OMK), a national nonprofit dedicated to supporting those families, celebrated a significant milestone: the distribution of its 100,000th activity award, totaling $36 million in funding. But beyond the impressive numbers lies a crucial story about resilience, normalcy, and the often-overlooked needs of children navigating the complexities of military life.

OMK provides grants to children (ages 1-18) of deployed National Guard and Reserve members, and Veterans receiving care for combat-related injuries, allowing them to participate in extracurricular activities – from sports and arts to STEM programs. The 100,000th award went to eight-year-old Gavin, who will use the funds to cover hockey fees while his mother is deployed. While Gavin’s story is particularly poignant, it represents a larger trend: the need to provide children with a sense of stability and joy amidst the uncertainty and sacrifice inherent in military family life.

Filling a Critical Gap

“Deployment and injury create significant stress within a family,” explains a representative from OMK. “Children often bear the brunt of that stress, experiencing anxiety, sadness, and behavioral changes. Extracurricular activities offer a vital outlet – a space where they can be kids, pursue their passions, and build confidence.”

This isn’t just anecdotal evidence. OMK’s internal impact assessments demonstrate a clear correlation between activity participation and improved well-being. According to their data, 85% of parents report improved emotional well-being in their children following participation, and 78% of children report increased self-confidence and social skills. The organization’s strategic focus on activities, rather than direct financial aid, is deliberate. It aims to foster a sense of normalcy and empower children to cope with challenging circumstances.

“It's about more than just keeping kids busy,” says a parent whose child benefited from an OMK grant. “It's about giving them something to look forward to, a sense of belonging, and the opportunity to thrive despite the challenges.”

A Strategic Investment in Families

OMK’s approach can be viewed as a strategic investment in the long-term health and well-being of military families. While organizations like Operation Homefront provide emergency financial assistance and other crucial support, OMK focuses on preventative care, addressing the emotional and social needs of children before they escalate into larger issues.

With 89% of expenses going directly to program costs, OMK operates with impressive efficiency. Funding comes from a mix of government grants (55%), individual contributions (30%), and investment income (7%). This diverse funding model provides stability and allows the organization to sustain its long-term mission.

“We see our work as complementary to other military support organizations,” says a representative from OMK. “We're filling a crucial gap by addressing the unique needs of children and empowering them to build resilience.”

Beyond the Numbers: The Growing Needs of Military Children

The demand for OMK’s services is steadily growing, mirroring the ongoing demands placed on the armed forces. Extended deployments, frequent relocations, and the psychological toll of combat create a unique set of challenges for military families. These challenges are often compounded by financial strain, limited access to support services, and the emotional burden of having a loved one in harm's way.

“Military families are incredibly resilient, but they can't do it alone,” says an expert in military family support. “Organizations like Our Military Kids play a vital role in providing the resources and support they need to thrive.”

Looking Ahead: Expanding Reach and Impact

As OMK celebrates its 100,000th award, the organization is looking ahead to expand its reach and impact. Plans include expanding programming to reach more children in underserved communities, strengthening partnerships with other military support organizations, and advocating for policies that support the well-being of military families.

The average grant amount of $360 may seem modest, but it can make a world of difference in the life of a child. It can cover the cost of registration fees, equipment, lessons, or travel expenses – allowing children to participate in activities they might otherwise miss out on.

“It’s not just about the money,” explains an OMK representative. “It’s about sending a message to these children and their families: ‘We see you, we appreciate your sacrifice, and we’re here to support you.’”

In a world often focused on the geopolitical implications of military service, Our Military Kids offers a powerful reminder that the true cost of war is often borne by those left behind. By investing in the well-being of military children, OMK is not only strengthening families, but also building a more resilient and supportive community for those who serve – and those who sacrifice alongside them. To learn more about Our Military Kids and how to support their mission, visit www.ourmilitarykids.org.